Arnold's seminar, Moscow, 8th of April, 2003 Victor Goryunov (joint work with D.Mond) "Tjurina and Milnor numbers of matrix singularities" We prove that $\tau=\mu$ for two-parameter families of symmetric matrices of any order. We also prove similar claims for two other closely related matrix classification problems: for arbitrary square matrices depending on 3 parameters and for even order skew-symmetric matrices in 5 variables. The coincidence of $\tau$ and $\mu$ in all the three classifications is a particular case of the main result on the relation between these two numbers for the matrix families in suffciently few variables: $$ \tau =\mu -\beta_0 +\beta_1 $$ where $\beta_0, \beta_1$ are the Betti numbers of the complex coming from the relevant matrix resolution. --- http://www.pdmi.ras.ru/~arnsem